All of those things can be fixed

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So politically incorrect to say so, I know. Male power is an illusion because it is granted to us by the female. The twist is that, everything being equal, women have the power to decide whether the dating light is green or red. Be sensible, for the love of god.

You may have been with a woman who was close to her family. If we push the magic buttons, the door opens. Not really a huge mystery. In our subconscious, we connect to our primordial heritage via the modern ritual of seeking out a partner for life, or for tonight. You may have had to explain yourself to an overprotective father or brother, shotgun in hand.

On the whole, give single and divorced mothers a pass. You may have had to bear the impossible weight of maternal expectations but nothing, I repeat nothing, can prepare you for the challenge of dating a single mother. Second, single mothers are clearly really, really shitty at making life decisions. Something wicked this way comes.

In fact, if you attempt to use a routine from your vaunted repertoire to most single mothers, you will face a swift rebuke. The metaphor of man as predator and woman as prey may seem crude but at the end of the day, many believe it. When you meet a divorced single mother, immediately start looking for the flaw.

Male power is an illusionSo politically incorrect

Check your masculine pride at the door and acknowledge that truth. Nor will false compassion, where you feign interest in order to add another notch to your bedpost. All of those things can be fixed.

Because in order to succeed at dating, we have to impress the woman, or conquer her, so that she can choose us as a partner. The game you play with other women may not have the same effect. Third, single mothers profoundly misunderstand men. For the bachelor not yet burdened with a family, few scenarios are as daunting as dating a single mother. Be very cautious around a woman who takes none of the blame for her failed marriage.